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Religion and Self-Empowerment: A Letter to Christian Women

Religion and Self-Empowerment: A Letter to Christian Women

RELIGION AND SELF-EMPOWERMENT

If you are a practicing Christian, you know that one of the greatest teachings of God is selflessness. As servants of our Creator, we should be enhancing our spirituality by selfless acts like helping our neighbors, forgiving people, loving our enemies and serving God, and less emphasis on our physical body and material things in this life.

Some people think that what I impart through my works about self-appreciation and self-empowerment does not sit well with the teachings of Christianity. One might think that by following the lessons I teach about loving yourself and knowing yourself better, they are doing the exact opposite of what God wants us to do.

I’m not an expert in religion, but I think there are important connections between what we practice inside the Going Beyond the Food Academy and the teachings of Christianity.  That’s why I want to share this letter from Susan Sledge, one of the students of Going Beyond the Food Academy to all Christian women who are doing the same work inside the Academy.

Written to Stephanie Dodier on August 1, 2018. It is a letter of clarification from me, as a student in the Going Beyond the Food Academy, to another Christian in the program who may be questioning the Academy’s teachings in light of Christian beliefs.

Dear Sister,

We have a mutual friend in Stephanie Dodier and I’m assuming a similar food freedom journey. I have spent the last couple of years reconciling what the Bible and Spirit of God has to say about our body, soul, and spirit. I’m passing along what I have come to understand in hopes that it will encourage you and enhance your walk.

Four Bodies, One Image of God

There is an excellent study by Andrew Womack on Body, Soul, and Spirit that you can get through his website or listen to by podcast. Materials are free and I think it is an excellent place to start. If you want the summary version then I suggest watching this Youtube video. Although the study goes into great depth proving three forms of our being, I have summarized it below:

1) Body – Physical body made of up bones, muscle, tissue, brain matter
2) Soul – Includes your mind, will, and emotions; Some think of it as your personality, how you think, how you process the world
3) Spirit (with a little s)– Innermost, eternal part of you. The part that God breathed into Adam at creation. After you became a believer, your spirit (little s) was perfected and you became a “new creation”.
4) Spirit (with a big S) – God’s Spirit that was promised to you as a believer. It was fused with your (little s) spirit. They are inseparable and form the new creation. His guidance is within you and part of you. He resides in you and your spirit.

In eastern medicine, Stephanie will teach you that there are 4 bodies. It is similar to Biblical teaching, but soul is a term used in the Bible to encompass both the mind/logic and emotions/will. In Christian thinking they are not delineated but so entwined that they utilize one term. Instinctively though, we know there is a difference between our “heart” and our “head” which is more in line with eastern teaching.

Every man is made in His image which includes Jesus, Father, and Holy Spirit. We are like beautiful diamonds that are multifaceted, multidimensional as He is. We all contain aspects of Him and in glorious moments, we demonstrate to the world who the creator is. Glorious moments can include spectacular moments or simply everyday life like, smiling at a stranger, the squeezing of someone’s hand to communicate love, passing on wisdom to another, being a helpmate, or interceding for someone’s need. We all, regardless of our religious beliefs, exhibit characteristics of God because he made us in His image.

In the Godhead, you will see Jesus who represents God’s bodily form. He had a form when walking around in the fiery furnace (Daniel 3). Jesus/God wrestled with Jacob (Gen 32) and of course was born into a human body which was later crucified. His body was resurrected, and he functions in it today. Father God is representative of divine thinking, wisdom, and emotions. It is the being that loves, protects, and provides for us. He is the one who administers justice. Holy Spirit is a gift. Holy Spirit is the creative, helpful teacher full of wisdom and guidance. Our three bodies (body, soul, spirit) have a purpose and together, we are able to move through life in communion with this world (Jesus). We are able to process past, present, and future to make decisions and to act (Father). We are able to learn from our innermost being to heal ourselves and others and live an abundant life (Holy Spirit).

Love Our Neighbors by Loving Ourselves

In my religious background, loving myself was a selfish act. I’m not sure if you can identify with that or not, but the higher calling was to love others and not to focus on self. I have come to believe that message is skewed.

When Jesus speaks of the Father and Spirit, it is with great love and adoration. When the Father speaks of Jesus and the Spirit, it is also with love and adoration. The Spirit also testifies of the same with regards to Father and Jesus. They love each other AND they are one being. So, it is fair to say that God (Father, Jesus, Spirit) loves Himself. Out of that love, He created man.

Jesus said the greatest commandment was to “love God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind (Matt 22:37)”. The second commandment is similar, “you shall love your neighbor as yourself” (Matt 22:39). Jesus was answering a religious lawyer who was trying to entangle him in legalistic, right/wrong thinking. Jesus knew the hardest part about keeping a law was that which the soul processes (heart, soul, mind) and if we focus on loving God, our creator/father/friend/savior then everything else falls into place in due time.

When Jesus told us to love others as ourselves, there as a HUGE assumption on His part that we love ourselves. That sentence can be rewritten to say “as you have come to love yourself, love others in the same way”. What does that mean?
It is what Stephanie teaches in the form of self-compassion, body neutrality, meditation to calm the mind, mindful movement to honor the body, nutrition to feed our body, and spiritual practice to nurture the spirit and commune with God.

Self-Sabotaging Behaviors Shut Spirit Flow

Womack’ study speaks of the body, soul, and spirit being a pipeline. He uses the analogy of a valve between the spirit and soul that we control the flow. We can either shut it off completely and not interact with the spirit’s wisdom or we can let it flow like a raging river. When spirit knowledge comes into contact with the soul there is a renewing of the mind (mind, will, and emotions) that takes place and when it is complete, it will be demonstrated in the body. So, the flow goes from spirit to soul then to body.

Sometimes, when we don’t see God’s promises manifest in our bodies, it is because we have turned down the flow or our minds haven’t yet fully embraced it as truth. Stephanie’s work is about helping us evaluate our valve control or belief system in the renewing of the mind. When she talks about the subconscious or self-sabotaging behaviors, I liken it to the pipeline analogy. Sometimes we know we are limiting the flow and other times, our soul is acting on our behalf because of what it believes to be best.

There are inner healing ministries dedicated to uncovering the lies we have believed and asking God to heal them. Beyond the Food program is about finding the lies we are believing about ourselves and being open to healing from different sources (self, food, higher power, breath, mindful movement). For me, I am able to easily transform the imagery from the different tools Stephanie presents to God’s provision and all the tools He has provided me on this freedom journey.

When God created Adam, He commanded Adam and Eve to take dominion and rule over all they had been given. Believers are given authority in spiritual matters. We are entrusted with the care of ourselves and His people. I think I understood it well when ministering to others, but I don’t know that I took dominion in my own life when it came to self-care. I placed others need above mine and I had come to believe that I was incapable of permanent change and because of past performance, I might not be worthy of it.

Of course, they are lies, but when we believe a lie, it becomes our truth, in a sense, and it’s not until the renewing of the mind that we have an “ah-ha moment” and the lie is replaced by truth and the valve opens up the flow a little bit more. It is difficult to stop moving water. As we get truth flowing through us, it is hard to stop the healing that transpires. When we know better, we do better whether we really intend to or not.

This is why Jesus is called the truth and because of it, He is the way, the truth, and the life. When He (Jesus, Father, Spirit = God) flows in us things truly change. When we see a dry, barren area (because of the exercises, reflections, journaling, meditation, etc), we can signal to Jesus that we have a dry spot. He will reroute the truth flow over that spot. Old will pass away and the new is now in the current. This is dominion.

Because our spirit and God’s Spirit are fused together and perfected, this search and rescue mission is symbiotic. It may feel like He is pointing out the dry spots while other times we are doing the excavation. Either way, spirit/Spirit are working in tandem to provide healing and life abundant.

Reaching God from Within Ourselves

Let’s talk about meditation and yoga. In Christian circles, we are taught to not go inward because we are taking our focus off God and onto us. I subscribed to this thought for many years because of the amount of scriptures speaking to focus and reliance on Him. I have had a few “a-ha” moments over the last couple of years that have changed my thinking.

First, if God, through His Spirit resides in us, then wouldn’t we go inward to seek Him in addition to other ways to access Him? Second, have you ever done a “soaking” session or silent retreat? The whole point of these sessions are to quiet the world, quiet the mind so we can hear from Him. Having this internal navigator was the miracle of the cross.

Old Testament believers couldn’t fathom the concept of God residing within us….actually taking up residence. Meditation, which can also be a part of yoga, is a prayerful act of calming the body and soul so that the spirit can speak. This includes your little S spirit and His big S Spirit. If the word meditation wigs you out, then try substituting the word prayer. If I recommended 10 minutes of prayer every night, you wouldn’t argue with it, would you?

In worship, there is a release where your mind is not racing around but focused on God. You release your cares for one moment (soul), let your body experience the movement (body), and your spirit has a moment to connect with the body/soul and God. Sometimes in worship, we get moments of clarity because the mind is focused and released for all other obligations, much like the act of meditation. If you speak in tongues, you have experienced how your spirit by-passes your mind to commune with God. It is a release, encouragement, and “reset” much like meditation.

He made us Capable of Self-Healing

Healing breath is another topic for discussion. When Stephanie says to send your breath to an area to break up anxiety, I say try it and see what happens. It is nothing short of a miracle. Scripture says that every good thing comes from God. Holy Spirit is described as a wind and fire. Breathing stirs up something in us. It purifies within us. When we circulate breath, we are circulating a healing power that God breathed into all men.

So God’s gifts are for everyone and not just us Christians? Whoa, now! I’m probably stepping on some toes. When He created man, he created them and said it was “good”. His relationship to them was perfect and the world was created for them.

After sin entered the world, there has been a continual process on behalf of God to restore us back to original design and relationship. Through Jesus, he took care of the relationship piece. Your spirit is in perfect unity with His but your body and soul are still in process of being restored back to perfection.

Think of it this way…..if you were stupid before believing in Jesus, you were stupid after, but over time, you learned more and got a little less stupid. If God is the creator of all good things, then He created them for all people not just Christians. Some people are able to recognize God’s gifts better than others and believers should be quicker at it because of the relationship they have with the Godhead and practice over time.

Wisdom is a God-given Gift

Wisdom is something that God gave the world and to every man. Wisdom is personified in the Bible as “she”. She cries out in the marketplace meaning she speaks in the busiest of places. This could be the nightly news, your business, your children’s school, a friend, and cultural trends. Wisdom has always been here.

I imagine wisdom was shouting at Eve when she started talking with Lucifer in the garden but with free will, she chose to ignore it. Wisdom wasn’t just in the middle east, it was everywhere. Could a man in China hear wisdom and apply it to his life in 1000 B.C.? If you have ever visited a museum of ancient cultures, you would have to confirm that wisdom must have been present and the people grabbed it.

What about eastern medicine and integrative medicine? Could it be that they have had their ears attuned to wisdom and picked up what she has been putting out? I believe this is why you see nuggets of truth in every world religion. They are picking up wisdom from God.

Jesus is the issue, however. Who we believe Jesus is….Son of God/God Himself removing all barriers between Himself and man….is the core issue of our belief and the monumental divide with other belief systems. Wisdom, however, is God’s gift to all of mankind.

I have gone on and one, but felt the need to share this with Stephanie in case she wants to pass it along to another curious, Christian mind. Feel free to reach out to me if you want to discuss this further.

Hugs,

Susan Sledge
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817-219-7801

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Nutritional Deficiencies and Cravings: You Crave to Survive!

Nutritional Deficiencies and Cravings: You Crave to Survive!

nutritional-deficiencies-and-cravingsWhen we lack, we intuitively CRAVE. As I’ve always said, cravings are messages from your body. When you are deficient in something, your body tries to maintain balance by sending signals through cravings. It’s not a choice you make; the survival mechanisms in your subconscious mind trigger these cravings. My own experience illustrates how nutritional deficiencies and cravings go hand in hand.

Nutritional Deficiencies and Cravings: Familiar Bedfellows

I used to undergo a yearly routine medical checkup, which was required by my employer. Every year, my test results would indicate that I had a B12 deficiency and was encouraged to get monthly vitamin B12 shots. When I asked why I lacked the vitamin, the answer was simply, “It just happens, Stephanie. You don’t have to worry. Just take the shots and you’ll be OK.”

I later learned in nutrition school that my Vitamin B12 deficiency was caused by the birth control pills my doctor prescribed and I had been taking since the age of 17. The number one symptom (a.k.a. body message) of vitamin B12 deficiency is fatigue. I was craving salty foods because my adrenal glands were on overdrive, trying to keep me going by flooding my body with cortisol. This explains why I often reached for a bag of salty potato chips after coming home from work.

Scientific research confirms the link between nutritional deficiencies and cravings. For instance, scientists have found that iron and sodium deficiencies cause cravings. In rare and extreme cases, nutritional deficiencies have led to pica or the craving for non-nutritive substances such as wood, dirt, or soil.

Other Deficiencies That Cause Cravings

Nutritional deficiencies aren’t the only drivers of food cravings. Some scientific studies have identified other factors. Below are just a few examples:

  • Lack of sleep – When you sleep too little, your hormone levels get disrupted. Researchers have found that the lack of sleep causes the body to produce less leptin (the “satiety” hormone) and more ghrelin (the “hunger” hormone). This makes you more likely to experience food cravings.
  • Lack of hydration – Research reveals that mild dehydration causes mood disturbances. These disturbances could lead to food cravings. Also, thirst is often confused with hunger, which leads to cravings.
  • Lack of relaxation – People with high levels of stress are more likely to experience food cravings.
  • Lack of fiberFiber helps you feel full. Eating too little fiber may increase hunger and food cravings.
  • Lack of joy or sense of well-being – Being in a negative mood can lead to food cravings.

3-Step Solution to Cravings Due to Deficiencies

I host a podcast called The Beyond The Food Show, and I recently had Dr. Keesha Ewers as a guest. On the show, she shared three steps you need to take to start healing your cravings that are due to deficiencies, nutritional or otherwise:

  1. Watch your inner language. Talk to yourself in a loving and compassionate way that does not let you off the hook. Think about how you would parent your own child and do that for yourself.
  2. Take responsibility. This doesn’t mean you should blame yourself for your cravings. Just take responsibility for your choices.
  3. Get off the scale. Use your own body’s feedback; listen to your body messages. Get into a collaborative relationship with your body instead of a combative relationship.

If you want to learn more about nutritional deficiencies and cravings, listen to my interview with Dr. Ewers here, or you can play the audio or video file below:
 

 

Struggling With Food Cravings?

If you need help with food cravings, you can download my free Crave Cure Guide. It’s my free gift to those who want to start their journey to better health and find food freedom. You can download it here.

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3 Powerful Solutions to Stop Stress Eating & Night Time Eating

3 Powerful Solutions to Stop Stress Eating & Night Time Eating

stress eating

I’m intimately familiar with seesaw weight loss/gain. I’ve found myself caught in this cycle for most of my life. Like many of you, I once thought it was because something was wrong with me. Little did I know that my problem was what we now call “stress eating.”

One day, I would do very well in controlling what I ate. Then, the very next day, something would happen and I would fall off the wagon. That “something” could be anything like when I got asked to move for work or the time when my boyfriend was hospitalized, or when I got a promotion at work.

Food: My Antidote to Stress

When I was in the moment, I didn’t feel like it was something big and stressful. I didn’t want to disappoint anyone or not be successful, so I just marched on, struggling to maintain the image of the capable and successful woman everyone knew me to be.

You see, those moments were as stressful for me as they would be for you, BUT I had a very effective way of dealing with stressful events—disconnection. As soon as I felt the stress coming, I would disconnect from the sensation in my body. It was my favorite defense mechanism. I would disconnect by overworking, overextending myself, and overeating.

I responded to stress by eating. It was my way of protecting myself. Being the strong woman I was, I ate in secret.

This was my way of reacting to how my hormones affected my body. I also ate to soothe the stressful emotions and sensations that I was experiencing in my body.

The Mechanics of Stress Eating

Not only is stress eating a reaction to an emotion aka stress, but it is also a physiological reaction to the biochemical component of stress: the hormone cortisol. Studies have shown that cortisol increases appetite and causes the body to store fat in the belly.

When the stress hormone cortisol is present in the body, it sends signals to the brain that it is in danger and that the body must be ready to protect itself. It releases glucose in the blood, raising your blood sugar. Then, the body will try to balance off the sudden blood sugar spike by releasing insulin.

This cycle of hormones will lead to cravings: specifically sugar/ carb cravings. This vicious cycle will not stop until the body stops releasing cortisol.

Stop Stress Eating: 2 Effective Ways to Do It

I recently spoke with Evan Brand on The Beyond The Food Show, the podcast I’m hosting. Evan is a functional medicine practitioner. In the podcast episode, he taught us the inside and out of what stress does to our body and how it stimulates cravings. He also told us what we can do to prevent the negative side effects of stress in our lives.

Here are the three ways on how to stop stress eating :

  1. Do a full lifestyle evaluation. Write a pros-and-cons list of everything and everyone in your life. This includes your job, friends, and family members. If something or someone turns out to be toxic to you, you have to remove them from your life. The most difficult part is getting toxic people out of your life, but if they keep bringing you down, it’s a necessary step.
  2. Find the big WHY behind your health goals. What is it that you actually want to be healthy for? It could be to live long enough to see your grandchildren. Perhaps you want to have more energy to pursue your other goals in life. Whatever that big WHY is, identify it and be clear about it. It will give you the motivation to keep going.

Evan shares even more insights on stress eating on The Beyond The Food Show. To know more, you can listen to the podcast episode here and have access to the show notes. Or you can play the audio or video file below:


 

How I Deal With Stress Today

As I’m writing this, I’m sitting on my couch in my living room. I’m about to go write some more, but before I do that, I’m going to get up, walk around for a few minutes and take a few deep breaths. This is what I call stress prevention 101. I no longer wait to be a victim of stress so I’m working hard on preventing it!

Today, stress is still present in my life (it never goes away), but I now have a different perspective. First, I have tools to help me cope with the sensation of stress in my body and to release it. Breathing and journaling are amazing for this. The real food and low carb nutritional lifestyle is a blessing because it helps us stabilize our blood sugar in response to stress.

These tools are exactly what I teach in the Crave Cure Program. If you need help with stress eating, I invite you to download my free Crave Cure Guide. It’s my gift to those who want to find food freedom and take charge of their eating habits. Get started today! Grab your free copy of the Crave Cure Guide here.

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What is Emotional Eating? What You Need to Know

What is Emotional Eating? What You Need to Know

what is emotional eating

I can’t remember the time I became aware that I was emotionally eating. If you asked me, “What is emotional eating?” before then, I wouldn’t know how to answer that question.

I saw eating as a mathematical game; the more calories I consume, the heavier I got. It was just another problem to resolve.

And so I began to eat less than I normally did before I decided it was time for me to lose weight. I controlled my appetite, watched what I ate, and exercised diligently. I set a goal and I did my very best to hit it!

My Experience With Emotional Eating

The problem was that the process of losing weight was difficult, painful, and filled with deprivation (or at least the process I went through). It was a constant mental game of not giving up. I told myself that once I hit my weight goal, it was going to be easier because I would be perfect and therefore happy.

One of things I did was have a weekly “cheat day” and it was something that I always looked forward to. It was usually on a Friday or a Saturday. I had a free pass to eat anything I wanted — sweets, mayonnaise on my sandwich (I once thought fat was bad), butter with my eggs, bacon for breakfast, and a whole bag of barbecue-flavored potato chips. I binged like there was no tomorrow!

It was like I was making up for something. Perhaps it was my way of making amends after allowing myself to feel deprived. Gosh, it felt great!

Now, that was emotional eating, and I had been doing it a lot before I even knew the answer to the question, “What is emotional eating?”

What is Emotional Eating: The Straight-Up Answer

When you eat in response to feelings or you use food to relieve negative emotions, you are emotionally eating. It’s eating for reasons other than providing your body with the nourishment it needs.

Emotional eating is prevalent in women. It is normal because we are emotional beings with an emotional relationship with food. It started from the day we were born. We learned that, whenever we wanted to get fed, all we had to do was cry. It continued during our childhood years when our mothers cooked for us. We usually celebrated our birthdays with a cake. When we got good grades, we got ice cream as a reward.

We eat to protect ourselves against negative feelings and emotions. In that regard, eating is a form of self-preservation. What could be more natural than that?

I thought there was something wrong with me and that my body was defective because it craved food all too often. I thought that I was weak and that nobody else ever did this.

Now, I’m glad to know that I was wrong. There is a way of healing this kind of relationship with food.

A 3-Step Solution to Overcome Emotional Eating

Three actions steps you need to take to start the healing process:

  1.  Get clear on your story around food. Ask yourself, “What is my identity around food?” You might say, “I’m a compulsive eater. I eat uncontrollably. I have zero willpower.” That’s a good place to start. Just get clear on that and acknowledge it.
  2.  Get on clear on the ideal story that you want around food. Ask yourself, “How do I want my relationship with food to be?” However, don’t change your story drastically. Going from “I’m a compulsive eater” to “I have a healthy relationship with food” will only make your brain say, “You’re a liar.”What you want to say is, “I am in the process of…” When you say “I am in the process of,” you take the power off of the old statement. Also, your brain is going to find evidence as to why that’s true. The good thing is it’s not going to find any evidence to the contrary.
  3.  Use your breath. Breathing helps you to go from a stressful state to a relaxed state. Binge eating is impossible when you are present. Anyway, you see it, using your breath is an effective way for you to stop feeling the need to use food as a drug.

To learn more about how our emotions impact our cravings, listen to my entire interview with Samantha Skelly here or you can play the audio or video player below:

Need Help With Emotional Eating?

Now that you know the answer to “What is emotional eating?” you may want to take the next step — finding freedom from emotional eating. I have a gift for you. My free Crave Cure Guide will help you overcome food cravings and take charge of your eating habits. Start your journey towards food freedom and better health today! Download the Crave Cure Guide here.

 

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How Gut Bacteria Impact Your Cravings and Overall Health

How Gut Bacteria Impact Your Cravings and Overall Health

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One of my favorite things to talk about when I work one on one with patients is their poop. I just love the look on their faces when I start asking them to describe their poop in great detail — color, smell, texture, form, and level of greasiness. Because they usually don’t know what gut bacteria and cravings have to do with each other, they’re confused that I even asked that question.

Then I ask them about “farting.” Well, that’s usually when I make them blush!

Back in the day, I use to have gas and my poop used to smell so much so that I had to open a window or use perfume to hide the smell. I thought it was normal, since everyone in my family was just like me. After all, poop should smell bad, right?

Until one day, my coach asked me if I still had “gas. This was after I ate healthy for a full month. I still remember the look of amusement on his face when he said, “I bet you $100 that you don’t fart anymore.”

My face blushed, like beet red blushed!

So I get it, folks, that it’s not a comfortable topic. But yes, I was no longer passing gas by that time, not feeling bloated, and my poop didn’t smell anymore.

What the heck!?!

My Fascination with Poop

In the weeks that followed, I became fascinated with the relationship between what I ate and my poop, gas and bloating. I discovered something amazing…

That having gas and/or being bloated after eating is NOT normal and BAD smelling poop is not OK either. It’s actually an indication of poor digestive health and food intolerances.

That idea is one of the reasons why I decided to quit my job and decided to go back to school at 36 years old. One can say that a conversation about poop changed the direction of my life. I also discovered that the reason why I was craving sweets was because of the bacteria in my digestive system.

The Relationship Between Gut Bacteria and Cravings

Did you know that bacteria outnumber the cells in your body by 10 to 1? That what we eat and digest will directly influence if we have “good” bacteria or “bad” bacteria? Having a healthy ratio between good and bad bacteria is vital. Otherwise, you may develop health issues such as sugar cravings, gas and bloating, yeast infection, impaired immune system, asthma, allergies, auto-immune issues, skin conditions such as eczema, etc.

Keep Your Gut Healthy

Recently, I had an interview with Dr. Will Cole, a leading functional practitioner, on my podcast, The Beyond The Food Show. Dr. Cole explained why and how gut bacteria and cravings are closely related and shared three tips on how to maintain gut health:

  1. Mind your poop. Your poop, as well as your bowel movements, offer clues on your gut health and any underlying problems that you may have. You should have about two bowel movements a day and your poop should be well-formed “snakes.” To know what your poop indicates, you can refer to the Bristol stool chart which you can download for free here
  2. Eat foods that are medicines for your gut. 
  • Fermented food and drinksKimchi, sauerkraut, coconut kefir, coconut yogurt, kombucha, etc. (Be careful though and watch out for flare-ups which may be caused by some imbalance or overgrowth in your microbiome.)
  • Bone broth – This is good for leaky gut. The gelatin in bone broth repairs the excess holes in the gut lining.

To learn more about gut bacteria and cravings, you can listen to my interview with Dr. Will Cole here or you can simply play the audio or video file below:
 

Gut Bacteria and Cravings: Heed the Warning Signals!

Here’s a very important lesson I want all of you to keep in mind — your cravings AREN’T your enemies. They are simply warning signals. They tell you that something in you (physical or emotional) is out of balance and needs to be addressed. Once you do address the issue, the cravings will go away.

Stop blaming the messenger and take charge of your gut health!

Need help dealing with your cravings? I have prepared a free guide for you to start your journey towards food freedom. Download the Crave Cure Guide and take charge of your eating habits today!

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Food Addiction: Do You Have It?

Food Addiction: Do You Have It?

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Do you remember the days when eating was simple? You only thought about food when you felt hungry, you ate, and then moved on? You weren’t even aware that there was such a thing as food addiction! 

When I was young, I ate intuitively. I subconsciously listened to my body’s needs and I ate. I chose the right food in the right amount, naturally.

This is what we did as humans for thousands of years… all the way back since the first human beings walked the earth. The big difference we have with our ancestors is that we don’t have to work all day long to hunt, gather, or grow food. Now, we simply go to the fridge and, VOILA, we eat!

Eating Healthy Naturally

Food nourishes our body physically with nutrients that build cells and provide us with energy. It is also a source of pleasure. Food is rewarding and it’s partly what allowed us as a species to survive. We sought food that made us feel good and avoided food that made us feel bad.

Eating healthy means being able to enjoy the rewarding aspects of food without falling prey to a loss of control over eating. Some of us do this naturally; others don’t.

I don’t. Do you?

Food as a Way to Regulate Emotions

For some of us, this rewarding aspect of food is what we use to regulate our emotions. Some of us are more prone to this behavior than others. There are many factors that influence our relationship to food: culture, family, psychological make-up, past experiences, and economic status.

We attempt to express and regulate our emotions by eating when we are stressed or sad or by obsessively counting calories or macros.

What is really important for every one of us to understand is our personal relationship with food, how it expresses itself, along with environmental influences that affect this relationship. We must understand that we aren’t victims, but actually we have the power to change our relationship with food if we first become aware of it.

Food Addiction: Is It Even Possible?

Can you be addicted to food? Yes and No.

Yes, you can be addicted to processed food and sugar due to its ability to stimulate the reward center in your brain. The reward center is the same part of your brain that is stimulated by drugs, for example. So yes, you can be addicted to certain foods, BUT not to vegetable, protein, and healthy fat!

How Food Addiction Works

Recently, I invited Dr. Susan Pierce Thompson of Brightline Eating as a guest on The Beyond The Food Show, a podcast that I host. Dr. Thompson has a PhD in Brain and Cognitive Science. In my interview with her, she sheds light on how some food can become addictive.

Here’s what I gleaned from my interview with her on the mechanics of food addiction:

  • Everyone agrees that drugs like heroin and cocaine are addictive. Both drugs come from plants – cocaine is from coca leaves and heroin is from poppy seeds. Eating or consuming the plants themselves won’t cause addiction.
  • However, if one extracts the “inner essence” or the most potent bit of both coca leaves and poppy seeds, you get cocaine and heroin. In the same fashion, when you take the “inner essence” wheat and beet root, you have flour and sugar, which can flood the reward center of the brain with dopamine.
  • When sugar and flour flood the brain with more dopamine than it should have, the brain rewires itself in a process called down regulation. It will have a smaller response the next time that happens so that it can stay in equilibrium. So now, unless you’re eating sugar and flour, you won’t have enough dopamine because your dopamine receptors have become less numerous and less responsive. You won’t feel okay. That’s how you become addicted.

If you want to learn more about food addiction and the psychology of eating, you can listen to my interview with Dr. Susan Peirce-Thompson where she teaches us how to evaluate your relationship to food and determine our level of sensitivity to food addiction. You can either go to the podcast episode page by clicking this link or simply play the audio or video file below:

Need Help With Food Addiction?

For my part, I have the tendency to develop addictive behaviors. Over the years, I have expressed my emotions via excess work, excess exercising, control over my food, and overeating.

I now know myself well enough and I’m able to set-up a successful environment for me to thrive. Can you do the same?

If you’re struggling with food addiction or if you seem to be in a never-ending battle with food cravings, let me help! My team and I have worked hard to prepare a handy little guide that can help you find freedom from food cravings. Begin your journey to food freedom and better health today! Download the free Crave Cure Guide now!

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Sugar Addiction: 3 Ways to Beat It

Sugar Addiction: 3 Ways to Beat It

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I was a sweet person when I was 11, but not in the way you think! When I first realized that I could turn to food to make myself feel better, I began to bake sweet goodies. And yes, I ate them, too! Being just a young girl at that time, I had no idea that I was starting to develop sugar addiction.

To be completely honest, I had a sweet tooth for a very long time in my life, but I have lost my yearning for sweets a long time ago. My experience is a testimony that it’s possible to overcome sugar addiction. Today, my favorite taste is salty and I tend to go for anything that is crunchy. Chips have become a trigger food for me. I’ll tell you more about in another blog post!

Is There Such a Thing as Sugar Addiction?

Now, going back to sugar addiction, is it even real? The answer is yes and no. I say yes because sugar stimulates the same neural pathways in our body as does any other addictive substance or activity. It also releases opioids and dopamine, something which drugs also do. But I also say no, because we can’t be addicted to something we consider as food.

I know that you want a straight answer. Well, that’s part of the problem with sugar addiction. It’s not that simple. Food is something we can’t treat like other addiction such as drugs, alcohol or even gambling. We can’t get off food like we can get off alcohol or drugs. We need to eat in order to live.

A Sugar-Free Lifestyle?

Now, is it possible to avoid sugar for the rest of your life? Well, technically, it is possible. A life avoiding all forms of sugar could be the answer, but what a painful, boring life that is! This means never, ever eating birthday cake again (even the clean whole food version). It also means having an extremely difficult time socializing with your friends and loved ones because you are on a strict no sugar diet. So yes, it’s possible to avoid sugar for the rest of your life, but is it doable?

Here’s the real honest truth: strict abstinence is like putting a band aid on the real problem. You will “control” your problem with sugar, but never really heal it. If you want to heal your sugar cravings, you need to understand it.

How NOT to Overcome Sugar Addiction

To be honest with you, back when I was 25, I switched from sugar addiction to work addiction. I replaced sugar with another “thing.” Yes, that can happen! I have seen many women doing just that: moving from sugar addiction to food control addiction. They strictly avoid sugar and focus on obsessively thinking about food, counting calories, worrying about macro, etc. Well, for me, I replaced sugar addiction with workaholism. As you can see, replacing an addiction with another addiction is not a healthy way of solving the problem.

Overcoming Sugar Addiction: 3 Action Steps

I recently interviewed Dr. Sam Shay on my podcast, The Beyond the Food Show. Dr. Shay is a world-renowned expert in sugar addiction. During the interview, Dr. Shay shared three tips that could help you overcome sugar addiction:

  1. Get enough sleep. Sleep deprivation has could disrupt the normal fluctuations of the appetite hormones, ghrelin and leptin, thus increasing the likelihood of cravings. A study published on Oxford University’s Sleep Research Society website concluded that the lack of sleep may be a risk factor for cravings for carbohydrate-rich foods. So if you want to stave off sugar cravings, make sure that you’re getting enough sleep!
  2. Have a good breakfast. A good breakfast is nutritious and high in protein. A study shows that eating a high-protein breakfast reduces the feeling of hunger before lunch. Remember to include vegetables in your breakfast. (I usually recommend two cups of veggies per meal, and that includes breakfast.)
  3. TAME the BEAST of addiction. In the podcast, Dr. Shay introduced a 4-step process that you can use to overcome any type of addiction which he calls the “TAME the BEAST” model. “TAME ” is actually an acronym on how to stop the cycle of addiction:
  • Take a breath
  • Accept you’re in the cycle
  • Make a decision to exit the cycle
  • Exit the cycle

In the interview, Dr. Shay shared some eye-opening insights and facts. In fact, it was not until after this interview that I was able to really work through my tendency to numb my feelings. For more about Dr. Shay’s TAME the BEAST model as well as his valuable insights on sugar addiction, you can listen to my entire interview with Dr. Shay here or you can play the audio or video file below:


 

Ready to Take the Next Step?

I hope this blog post will help you understand sugar addiction. If you are addicted to sugar, there’s always hope. Armed with the right tools and knowledge, you will be able to transform yourself from being a sugar addict to an empowered food lover!  

I have a free gift for you.  The Crave Cure Guide is a handy little e-book that will equip you with the tools that will help you find food freedom. Take charge of your eating habits today! Download the Crave Cure Guide here.

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Sugar Cravings During Periods: 3 Steps to Keep Them at Bay

Sugar Cravings During Periods: 3 Steps to Keep Them at Bay

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You might be wondering why you have sugar cravings during periods. Perhaps you’ve been blaming your hormones for these cravings. If so, you’re right! Hormonal cravings are a REAL THING.

Now, I have to be completely honest and transparent with you and admit that I have never experienced these types of cravings. I learned about these cravings from my patients who have told me how much suffering these hormonal cravings can cause. Trust me, I get it now!

The Solution to Sugar Cravings During Periods

Before, I was wondering why I didn’t have sugar cravings during periods. It wasn’t until I interviewed Dr. Kyrin Dunston for my podcast, The Beyond the Food Show, that I understood why hormonal cravings weren’t an issue for me.

During her interview, Dr. Dunston told us that the hormone that causes us to crave sugar before our period is estrogen. In other words, if you have high estrogen levels, you are likely to have sugar cravings. You see, my estrogen levels have always been low. I discovered this when my saliva was tested to determine my hormone levels.

Dr. Dunston also shared three action steps that you can apply right now to stave off sugar cravings during periods:

1) Manage your stress. As you’ve probably read from my articles, your body releases cortisol when you’re under stress. Cortisol is the number one cause of your cravings for both salty and sweet foods. It causes more food cravings than hormonal imbalance.

Managing your stress means learning to say no and taking care of yourself first. Meditating is also an excellent way to manage stress. Meditation has been shown in several studies to lower cortisol levels.

2) Mind your menses. Whether you’re a younger menstruating woman or perimenopausal, you want to get your periods straight. You’ll need to balance your hormones using natural options such as vitex (also known as chaste tree) and soy supplements. Phytoestrogens or plant-based estrogens can also help, but if you are estrogen-dominant, a progesterone cream is better for you.

3) Detoxify. The liver is the sanitation department in the body. It gets rid of excess hormones. Most of us are estrogen-dominant; we have too much estrogen. Detoxifying will help your liver to get rid of the excess estrogen in your body so your hormones start balancing out.

You can learn more about hormonal cravings and how to balance your hormones by listening to my interview with Dr. Dunston here or by playing the audio or video file below:

 

 

 

Why You Should Manage Your Hormone Levels Now

Managing your hormone levels will not only prevent cravings, but also prevent other health conditions such as breast cancer. (Breast cancer has been associated with higher level of estrogen).

Our bodies are wise. The next time you have sugar cravings during your period, think about this — cravings are not your body’s way of torturing you! They are warning signals from your body that your female hormone levels are dysregulated and that you need to do something. They even help you prevent more serious and negative consequences of your hormonal dysregulation.

It’s time to take responsibility, educate yourself, and take action. When you manage your hormone levels, you manage your cravings. You also help your body to stay healthy.

Struggling With Sugar Cravings During Periods?

Let me help! My team and I have prepared a handy guide that will help you crush your cravings and take charge of your eating habits. Find food freedom today! Download my free Crave Cure Guide here

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How to Stop Binge Eating: 3 Expert Solutions

How to Stop Binge Eating: 3 Expert Solutions

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Whenever somebody brings up the topic of how to stop binge eating, I vividly remember the day I caught myself binge eating like crazy.

It was a Friday, at 4 o’clock in the afternoon. My plans with my fiance just fell through; he decided to accept an invitation from his buddies to watch a game. I was left alone with no plans on a Friday night.

I thought I’d just stop by the grocery on my way home, don my PJ’s, and watch some movies. At the grocery store, I grabbed a frozen family-size pizza, some fresh mozzarella, a bag of mini brownies, and a pint of Dulce Haagen Dazs ice cream. Food was going to be my companion as I hit the couch for a romantic movies night.

By the time the first movie was over, I was sitting there on my couch with an empty box of pizza, half empty bag of brownies, and an ice cream pint just about done…I wondered what just happened.

I suddenly felt the sting of self-loathing. Soon, I was beating myself up, calling myself names that I wouldn’t call my worst enemy. As a bullied myself, I quickly cleaned up and made all evidence disappear out of fear of anyone knowing.

I have been very hesitant in sharing this story with you. As a matter of fact, I have never shared my binge eating story with anyone. I never shared out of fear of judgment and because I was so ashamed of my previous choices.
But I want you to know that you are not alone. There is nothing wrong with you and you aren’t broken. There is a reason why you do this. Until you find it and work on healing it, the binge eating will not go away.

What is Binge Eating?

Psychologists define binge eating as eating more food than most people would in a specific amount of time under similar circumstances. It is characterized by a sense of lack of control and is associated with negative emotions. Binge eaters have difficulty regulating their emotions and use food to cope with them.

At the time, I knew that what I was doing was called binge eating or overeating, but I had no idea why I was doing it. I just thought something was wrong with me, so I kept it a secret. Afraid that others might judge me, I hid my shame and guilt behind a façade of strength. Then I punished myself by restricting food the next day.

I now know that I overeat to numb the emotions I didn’t want to feel. In this very personal example I just shared, it was the feeling of abandonment and rejection. Because I was a victim of bullying when I was younger, rejection is a BIG, nasty emotion for me.

How to Stop Binge Eating: 3 Easy Solutions 

I recently interviewed Dr. Carolyn Ross MD for the Crave Cure series on The Beyond The Food Show, a podcast that I host. Dr. Ross is a world renowned expert in overeating and binging behaviors. She shared some insights that helped me realized a lot about binge-eating and why I did what I did that lonely Friday afternoon.

In my interview with Dr. Ross, she shared three of her best tips on how to stop binge eating:

  1.  Have at least one meal a day without distractions. Sit at the table and eat your meal, relishing every morsel you put into your mouth. Don’t eat at your desk or watch TV. You need to be present and mindful when you eat.
  2. Eat some protein. It could be nuts, nut butters, meat, chicken, fish, etc. Protein reduces your craving for sweets and keeps you satiated longer.
  3.  Be more self-affirming. You can start asking what you love about yourself. It could be your eyes, hair, nose, or whatever. Just pick one part of your body and express gratitude for it. Doing so will help you have a more positive relationship with your body.

To learn more about binge eating and overeating, listen to my entire interview with Dr. Ross here on The Beyond The Food Show or listen to the audio or video file below:

My Relationship With Food Today

To this day, I still feel the urge to turn to food when I don’t want to feel certain emotions. However, I already know how to stop binge eating before it even starts. When the thought of binge eating / overeating comes to me, I’m able to recognize it and use the tools I have learned over the years to figure out what’s really hiding behind my desire to eat.

I learned so much about myself when I started delving into my relationship to food. There is nothing wrong with me or with you. All we need to do is take steps towards healing the emotions that drive us to eat. It’s not easy, but we can do it!

Next Steps to Stop Binge Eating

It’s time to stop struggling and start taking charge of your eating habits! I have a gift for you — The Crave Cure Guide. It’s a handy e-book that will help you learn how to stop binge eating by mastering your cravings. Find food freedom today! You can download the Crave Cure Guide here

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Thyroid and Peri-menopause: How one impacts the other

Thyroid and Peri-menopause: How one impacts the other

This post is written by a college and our guest expert Bridgit Danner, LAc, FDNP, founder of Women’s Wellness Collaborative. You can find more about Bridgit here.

 

Peri-menopause – the 5-10 years leading up to menopause – is a common time to be diagnosed with a thyroid condition.

In this article, I’d like to address these questions:

• Why then?

• Why more in women?

• What can be done?

Peri-menopause may begin in your late 30s or early or mid 40s.  You may notice that your PMS is worse. You may have spotting between periods. Over time, your periods will likely get more dramatic, with missed periods and heavy periods.  

Other symptoms may be popping up too, like anxiety, brain fog and weight gain. You may be thinking, “these sound like thyroid symptoms,” and you could be right!

But before we explore the thyroid connection, let’s cover what is normally happening during peri-menopause.

What is Peri-menopause?

Peri-menopause is, in short, the opposite of puberty. In puberty your ovaries are waking up to start your reproductive years. Your brain and ovaries are learning to work together to coordinate a monthly cycle, and often the first few reproductive years are hormonally unstable.

In peri-menopause, the brain-ovary relationship is starting to shut down. The ovaries are closing up shop, but the brain keeps knocking at the door, trying to get the shopkeeper working again.   

The sex hormone that needs to rise sufficiently in the first half of the month is estrogen. It is produced by the ovaries as they also grow eggs. If you produce enough estrogen and release an egg, you’ll ovulate.  And if that egg is healthy and hearty, you’ll produce a good amount of progesterone in the second half of your cycle. (The egg sac, or corpus luteum, makes progesterone after ovulation.)

How Your Thyroid Could Be Impacted in Peri-menopause

Even though both estrogen and progesterone are declining in peri-menopause, progesterone declines more dramatically in this stage. This leads to a condition called ‘estrogen dominance.’

Too much estrogen can prevent the thyroid hormone from getting to where it needs to go and can prevent it from converting to its active form. For some women, their thyroid symptoms are simply a result of this high estrogen interfering with thyroid hormone activity.  We’ll talk about how to address estrogen dominance shortly.  

Another thing estrogen effects is the immune system. Estrogen is associated with stimulating the TH2 branch of the immune system (1).  TH2 is short for T Helper cell type 2, a lymphocyte (immune cell). TH2 is part of the adaptive immune system, which mounts a specific attack against pathogens.+  Adaptive immunity is usually a good thing, but it can also lead to autoimmunity if the antigen activity is directed towards itself.

As estrogen is the dominant sex hormone in women, this helps to explain why autoimmunity and thyroid disease is more common in women.  

As we age, we also experience decreased immunity, and a tendency towards TH2 response.  

In the aged, however, naive cells are less likely to become effectors. In those that do, there is a documented shift towards a Th2 cytokine response.

The elderly have impaired ability to achieve immunization but much higher levels of circulating autoantibodies, (due to the lack of naive effectors) impaired response to viral infections, increased risk of bacterial infections, and increased risk of both neoplastic and autoimmune disease.” (3)

However, there is hope and action we can take to keep estrogen in check!

Thyroid and Peri-menopause Solutions

1. Improve Gut Health

If you’ve studied the thyroid, you know that gut health is key to prevent an autoimmune response and to convert thyroid hormone effectively.  Did you know it’s also important to clear estrogen dominance?  One way your gut helps clear estrogen is through the estrobolome, “the aggregate of enteric bacterial genes whose products are capable of metabolizing estrogens.” (4)

You can be friendly to your gut by avoiding:

• Genetically modified foods (GMO) – These kill off friendly bacteria

• Sugars – These feed troublesome bacteria . Challenge with sugar cravings you can consult our free guide to help you manage your sugar cravings here.

• Unnecessary antibiotic use – This kills everything, with bacterial imbalance often resulting in its wake

You can be friendly to your gut by including:

• Small amounts of fermented foods like sauerkraut or kimchi

• A wide variety of fibers from salad greens, fresh spices, berries, etc.

• A long period from an early dinner to breakfast lets your gut bacteria grow in peace!

If you are impacted by uncomfortable peri menopause symptoms a great place to start is with your diet. Making simple changes to the way you eat can have powerful impact to reduce your symptoms.

2. Boost Progesterone

Progesterone helps keep estrogen in check, so boost it by giving your body ingredients to make hormones.

• Hemp Oil – I’ve been very impressed with how 1 T of hemp oil a day helps my own peri-menopausal hormones

• Borage Oil – This oil, usually in pill form, has gamma linoleic acid to spark hormone production

• Maca- This adaptogenic root herb helps boosts hormone production and can benefit your energy levels and sex drive

3.  Help Out Your Immune System

If aberrant immunity could be a problem in your case, add some components that can balance your TH2 activity:

• Fish Oil- Fish oil has a balancing effect on the immune system and decreases inflammation. (5)  Quality matters with fish oil, so do research to find a good brand.

• Vitamin D- Vitamin D deficiency is found at higher levels in people with autoimmune thyroid disease.  (6) Talk to your doctor about getting your vitamin D tested and restoring it to a level around 60-80 NG/DL through sunshine and vitamin D3 supplementation. You can consult our guide to supplement here.

Learn more about the thyroid at perimenopause from experts like Dana Trentini, Dr. Tom O’Bryan and Heather Dubé at the free, online Hormone Balance After 40 Summit.
Thyroid and Peri-menopause

The summit happens live June 5-11, 2017, but recordings will live on after the live summit.  Register here.

You’ll hear 30+ experts on the topics like:

• Boosting your Metabolism

• Reclaiming your Sex Drive

• Restoring Mental Clarity.  

The best part is that it’s all free and you can attend online from any computer or smartphone.  Register here for your own

Hormone Balance After 40! This is possible and normal!

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The Crave Cure Series and Guide: Find Freedom From Food Cravings!

The Crave Cure Series and Guide: Find Freedom From Food Cravings!

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I’m so stoked! I’ve worked hard with my team to produce The Crave Cure Series and The Crave Cure Guide to help women tame their cravings & emotional eating. These gifts will surely change their relationship with food forever.

The Crave Cure Guide is a product of three years of study, research, and various workshops. It includes all the insights I’ve gleaned from patient work, feedback from my coaching program students, and hundreds of live streams with all my followers.

And now, here it is! You can download the free guide here

I’m excited for everyone who will download this guide, because this guide is potentially life-changing. It’s packed with actionable information and practical tips that can you can implement right away.

But Wait…There’s More! The Crave Cure Series

 
The Crave Cure guide is not the only gift that I want to give you.

I host The Beyond the Food Show podcast, where I interview health experts on various topics related to weight loss, emotional eating, and food cravings. The Crave Cure Series – Going Beyond The Food to find food freedom  was hosted via my podcast through the month of May 2017 ( episode 52-61) . This series of video and audio recording is the world’s first conference on food cravings. 

I have brought together 10 experts — MDs, functional medicine practitioners, and psychologists with PhDs. They will discuss all aspects of food cravings and offer you the solutions to help you heal your relationship with food.

Access to the Crave Cure series

To access each of the 10 episodes in The Crave Cure Series simply click the title of each episode below and you will be taken right to the interview with access to the video and audio recording along with full transcript and show notes.

and 

You can also access The Crave Cure Series: Going Beyond The Food, by subscribing to the podcast on iTunes or Stitcher or simply listen via my website You’ll be glad you did! 

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  1. Emotions & Cravings: Studies have demonstrated that 43% of the people eat in response to their emotions. Mainly to soothe and suppress negative feelings. Why do we do this? How can we change this behavior with Samantha Skelly from Hungry For Happiness.
  2. Hormones & Cravings: Studies have showed the impact of estrogen on our food cravings. How can we know if our female hormones impact of cravings & emotional eating with Dr. Dunston? 
  3. Overeating versus Binge Eating:  What cause overeating and how can we prevent it? Some studies discuss the link between overeating and addictive behaviours. 
  4. Sugar, Cravings and Addiction: The impact of sugar on our reward centre is now clear . Why does happen or heal can we heal our sugar cravings and addiction to sugar? Dr. Shay has steps by step approach for you! 
  5. Stress & Cravings: Stress is a major influencer of eating behaviours. Particularly for women stress means eating mean eating more and not the good stuff…. Evan Brand , Functional Medicine Practitioner will take us through how can we reduce the impact of stress on our cravings.
  6. Build to Eat: Human have been eating as a matter of survival. Our brain is wired to eat but not all of us are created equal. Tune we will discover how do detect our bio individuality and taking the next steps in customizing our relationship to food. PHD Susan Pierce Thompson will explain to us how our brain work in face of food.
  7. Gut, Microbiome and Cravings: We have approximately 5 lbs of bacteria within our digestive system this micro biome has a direct a influence to our cravings. Dr. Will Cole will teach us way to overcome this challenge and how to have happy bacteria!
  8. Why low carb is best diet to reduce cravings: What about if one diet would be better to help you tame your cravings and emotional eating? A recent study is telling the low carb diet might be the solution.Dr. Nally will teach us about the low carb power.
  9. Nutritional Deficiencies & Cravings: Think of your food as the raw material to build your house. If you are lacking certain element it  can lead to food cravings.Dr. Keesha Ewers will teach us that what it means for us.
  10. Hidden Hunger, Desire & Cravings:  Dr. Melissa McCreery will lead us to discover our hidden hunger nourishing our cravings and emotional eating behaviours. The psychology of eating is a fundamental healing path towards food freedom.

The Crave Cure series schedule

the crave cure series and guide

Why did I create this online event?

I have two main reasons for hosting such an extensive and comprehensive conference. The first is that I’d like to give you all the tools you need so you can change your relationship with food, overcome food cravings, and achieve your health goals.

The second reason is … Well, I have to be honest about this one. I’d like to erase any doubt that people may have about listening to their cravings. I want to make believers out of those who think that there is no science behind this approach. Are you one of them? If so, you should listen all the more to the podcast series!

The reason I’m giving away this guide and hosting this online event and all for free is that I’m on a crusade to stop the misinformation that has been going around for a long time now. I’ve seen the damage caused by the lies spread by the weight loss industry in the lives of the thousands of women that I’ve worked with … and in my own life.

We’ve Been lied too!

If you’ve been a victim of these lies, I feel for you. I’ve been a victim of this deception, too! I know the harmful effects that these lies have on many women, young and old — poor self-esteem, body image issues, depression, anxiety, and many more.

We’ve heard time and again that we need more motivation, discipline, and willpower to curb food cravings and make emotional eating go away. We’ve been led to believe that, unless we use certain products or follow certain diets, we are hopeless cases.

This is straight-up BS!

As I say all the time to all my students, patients and followers, the number one priority of the food industry as well as the weight loss industry is making oodles of money. Your health comes in at a distant second.

My wish for you…

My greatest hope is for you to apply everything that you’re going to learn from the The Crave Cure Series and the Crave Cure Guide. Knowing that I’ve made a positive difference in your life is the best reward I can ever hope for, so it would be awesome if you could let me know how the guide and the podcast series have helped you.

Enjoy your gifts and win your battle against food cravings! I want to hear from you below… let me know in the comment below how this information has helped you in your journey!

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5 Steps to Make More Time for Your Health

5 Steps to Make More Time for Your Health



Making more time for your health is more important than you think. Let’s take me for example. What was the number one reason I didn’t make my health a priority for more than 15 years?

Can you guess?

You got it: Time. 

It may be different for you, but for the majority of my patients (and in the past, for me), time is at the top of the list of reasons why they are struggling.

Every day I balanced work, home, friends and a seemingly endless stream of errands and to-dos. I wore too many hats. To be honest, I was once a workaholic; I used to work up to 14-16 hrs. a day. There was NO time for exercise or cooking, let alone some relaxation time. I used to think that people who had time for that were just, simply put, “lazy.” The hustle was real and I love it. It made me feel important and worthy.

But then one day, without warning, I ended up in the hospital and was told (by a cute young doctor …) that I needed to take prescription medications; otherwise, my condition would just get worse. That’s when it hit me like a ton of bricks: I was slowly but surely destroying my health.

It’s not like I never thought of it. Let’s face it, I’m smart a woman. I knew that every time I stopped by McDonalds drive-thru on my way home after work, it wasn’t the best choice for my health. But I’d always tell myself, “Ah, want the heck! Nothing bad has happened to me yet so I will figure this out later.”

Life is a Series of Choices

I had a choice to make: I could either continue to go down this path of self-destruction and just take prescription pills so I could go at that same pace, or I become a healthier person. I mean let’s face it. It wasn’t a secret and I could hide: I was overweight.

But here’s the real question that you’re likely asking yourself right now: Do I have the time to devote to becoming and staying healthy? If your answer is “no,” think again, because it’s not a question of having the time; it’s a question of making it. This one single realization could be the key to achieving the weight you want, and the feeling of energy and self-confidence you crave.

More Time for Your Health: 5 Ways to Make it Happen Now!

Try these tips to make more time for your fitness, nutrition, and emotional health and make your health a priority.

Change your perspective from “I have no time” to “There is time to be found.”

When I got back to the office after my trip to the hospital, I looked around me and I kept seeing colleagues who looked healthy. They seemed to be able to make time to go to the gym and bring their lunches to work. It was obvious that they had a positive outlook on life. When I asked them how they were able to do what they did, I found out that they all had one thing in common: They didn’t think they had any other option. It was part of who they were. Their perspective was different than mine.

I shifted my perspective from “I have no time” to “There is time to be found.” In most days, if not all, there are underused pockets of time, which you can spend on doing something that can help you become healthier.  We all have a choice on how we view things.

Changing your perspective is like changing the window through which you view the world. When you change how you view the world, you change how you feel about it, and life choices become easier. Making more time for your health won’t be hard at all.

Get your planner out and get creative

Find the time. For me, what seemed to be a lack of time was actually a failure to prioritize. Start by sitting down with your planner. If you don’t use one, get out a notepad and sketch out what every day during the week looks like, including what time you get up, what time you go to sleep, and everything in between.

Then dust off the same problem-solving skills you use at work or with the kids and look for places where you might trade one activity for another. When you have intentions, the universe collaborates with you to make them possible, including making more time for your health!

If you watch 60 minutes of TV each night, can you cut down your TV time to 30 minutes so that you can use the extra time to exercise or put together a healthy meal for tomorrow’s lunch? Perhaps you can walk on the treadmill while you watch. Maybe your kids can take the bus to school a couple of days a week or carpool to get to sports games so you can free up your time to do chores and go to bed early. Where there’s a will, there’s a way.

For me, I found pockets of extra time during the evening. I used to just crash on the couch from exhaustion every night. So I made a commitment to exercise at the end of each day and gave myself a month to see if it would help me. Well, guess what? Exercise, combined with healthier eating habits, gave me more energy, not only throughout the day but also at night. Since then, I would exercise for 45 minutes, 5 days a week. I also spent 15 minutes each night on packing my lunch for work.

Perfectionism Will Kill You… Delegate!

At first, I refused to admit that I was a Perfectionist. As matter of fact, I thought of myself as not being perfect enough. I mean having high standards is what pushed me to create the life that I have now. Nothing wrong with that, right?

The problem with having high standards is that you’re likely to not delegate. You tend to take on everything, I mean everything and do everything all by yourself. We think that no one besides ourselves can be trusted to get it done right, which is why we take on too much and have suffered from the “I don’t have time syndrome.” Doesn’t it sound familiar?

However, when I realized that I was making a mistake, I started handing over responsibilities to people around me. I invested time in training others on how to do important tasks and then I hold them accountable. People always strive to do their best, especially when we trust them with something important to us, including children.  You might be frustrated if your partner doesn’t fold the laundry exactly the way you think it should be done. But remember:  The trade-off is a valuable 10 or 20 minutes of time you can devote to yourself

Learn to say no

Do you feel resentment towards certain commitments in your life? I had one client who felt like she “should” be on the board of this nonprofit organization. But she was dreading the meetings and was always exhausted from her job and the commute. She started to feel resentful of the commitment. When she resigned from the Board, she immediately felt as if a huge weight was lifted off her chest.

The key to creating more time is to start saying “no” to requests and obligations that you don’t want to fulfill.  It’s kind of like cleaning out your closet. At first, you think everything is necessary. But once you begin getting rid of hangers from the dry cleaners and creating more space, you gain momentum. By the time you’re done, it feels great!

At first saying, no was very difficult for me…Honestly, I was afraid of not feeling needed. The aha moment for me was when I realized that the person who needed me the most was…ME. I needed to give to myself first.

So if you want to make more time for your health, learn the gentle art of saying no.

Quit wearing busy like a badge of honor

“I’m a busy woman.”

“Sorry, I’m booked till next week. Two weeks, actually.”

I used to say these things with pride. I wore my busyness as a badge of honor. My booked schedule was a proof of my value, my worth. But at the end of the day, I wasn’t happy, which led to me not being healthy.

We are part of a culture that increasingly values preoccupation and over-commitment. “Crazy busy” has almost become a statement of validation, reinforcing that I am significant and that what I am doing is important. That’s was me. But this addiction to being busy, as well as my drivenness, came at a steep cost: my health.

The first thing I did was to be aware whenever I said, “I’m so busy.” And whenever I caught myself doing so, I would reframe the situation in my own head.  I needed to regain a sense of perspective and control over my own life. I started journaling 3 to 4 times a week in the morning. I did have some resistance initially, but this habit has turned out to be a game changer in keeping me from succumbing to “the rising tide of demands, details, and deadlines.”

The discipline of recording your thoughts will help you gain greater focus, unravel thorny problems, process negative emotions, and maintain a balanced perspective on my work and life.

Dieting is not about the food

 

For me and 90% of the people who complete my programs, the biggest challenge wasn’t about the food at all. It was changing our mindset. I’m guessing that it will be your biggest challenge, too.

It’s all about what is going on inside your head that influences the choices you make.  What you have done thus far has gotten you to where you are now. If you want different results, it’s time to change your approach.

I’m a living proof that the 5 principles that you’ve just read really work. I have applied them in my own life. I changed my thoughts and this led to me making more time for myself. And gradually, I was able to change my lifestyle. In the process, I lost 100 lbs and achieved optimal health. I’ve never felt this good before!

Need a little more guidance to eating healthy? 

 

more time for your health“By taking time for me, I am making a powerful statement to my children that says: I matter. My passions matter. I don’t want them to just see me as the one who does the laundry, picks them up from school, and makes dinner. I want them to see a woman who is creative, loves her friends, and takes times for her own needs. I want my children to see a mother who values herself #ketoconnector.”-  Julie, a Keto Connector program client. 

Why not join my Keto Connector Challenge.  Participants have lost upwards of 15 lbs in 30 days. But more importantly, they have reduced ALL symptoms of disease by 59% – again in only 30 days.  Imagine what you could do with the tools and support I provide.  Click here to learn more.

What’s your one strategy that you would add to this list for preparing a healthy meal even when your schedule is terribly hectic? Share your comments below or on my Facebook fan page.

 

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I’m Stephanie Dodier - Clinical Nutritionist, Intuitive Eating expert, Podcast host, and Creator of the Going Beyond The Food Method™️, which was born from my own journey with chronic dieting & body image and has since grown into a global movement.

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